It’s The Time Of Year For ….WHY?

Well another year has come and gone. So what did you do?

Did you have the adventure you always wanted to have? Did you mentor a young person? Did you volunteer?, or did you do something for yourself ? Did you reach any of the goals you set out to do?

I know I reached a couple of my goals last year, and a lot I did not. Mike Murdock says “The only reason men fail is because of broken focus.” I know I had broken focus  over this past year, but I will learn from it and move on, and so can you.

I have been thinking about resolutions and goal setting. My husband and I sat down and really examined our goals, (individual and collective). One idea we came to, was “WHY”?. Why do anything?

Setting a goal or achieving a dream begins with WHY. I read a great book a short while ago, called “Start With Why” – By Simon Sinek. It is about how great leaders inspire themselves and everyone around them to take action. Now this book is aimed for business owners and leaders of organizations, but the principles can be applied to people individually .

Asking yourself ‘why do I want to achieve this goal or dream’ is very powerful. Why do you want run a marathon, lose weight, travel the world, etc ,this year? At every stage ask “Why”?.

For example:  Try this conversation with yourself…

Goal – I want to lose 20lbs. Why?

I want to feel better. Why?

So, I can enjoy more activities. Why?

So, I can enjoy doing more outdoor activities with my children. Why?

I want to spend more quality time with my children.

There is the real reason you want to lose weight. This is a very simplistic example, but I think you get the idea.

If you said ‘I want to lose weight because it is a goal everyone sets this time of year’, this is not a great ‘Why?’. Your Why has to have value  to you.

When you get down to the ‘real why’ of your goal, creating the daily habits to achieve your goal becomes easier and you are able to focus that much more clearly on your goal. So,over the next week or few days, really think about your goals and why you want to achieve them. In my next post we will discuss creating the daily habits that will help in achieving them.

Happy New Year

God Bless

Christine

 

 

My Heartfelt Apology

I have to apologize to everyone.

I have not blogged in a long, long, time and for that I apologize. I realize I have let some of you down, and I have also missed all of you as well.

I allowed circumstances in life to dictate to me instead of the other way around, and I suddenly realized it is the end of the year and my favourite celebation and holiday is upon us. Merry belated Christmas to all!

So, I am putting on my big girl pants and taking responsibility for my actions and/or lack of them. There is no excuse for not paying attention.

Again all I can do is apologize and hope you will continue to read and be “uplifted” by my blog.

Thanks for reading.

Christine Finnie

 

A Quiet Moment

Have you ever have one of those days when you just need to sit quietly,  listen to the breeze in the trees, and know this moment is made just for you?

I find that we don’t get enough of these moments. They are elusive. I guess that’s why we don’t get them as often as we like.

I remember a moment like that, last summer.  We were at a friend’s cottage up north.
It was a beautiful week. We were all out swimming in the lake, and because it was during the week, there were no boaters. We had the lake to ourselves. After the kids were headed back to the house, I stayed behind and got onto the floating raft and just drifted… This was my moment. I had such peace. All you could hear was the water and the gentle breeze and feeling the sun on my face. I remember thinking that this moment was just for me and realizing that at that moment, life was not as complicated as we make it out to be.

Have you seen the car commercial where the man is driving, and the whole world becomes slow motion, and he realizes that he is having a “perfect moment”?  He is thinking that this is ‘brilliant’ and he ‘can’t ruin it by thinking of anything else’. Then he gets one thought in his head, “What’s for dinner?”  Oops! The moment is over, he ruined it.

Those perfect moments are just that. Moments that last such a short time, and are so fleeting that no matter what happens, you never again have the exact same moment again. I suppose that is why we remember them so vividly and long for that feeling again.

Well, I believe we can search for those moments, but you can’t force them to come.
When they come, just let them happen and don’t force the issue. You will always remember that moment.
It will bring a smile to your face even when you are in the middle of chaos.

My point is that when we take the short breaks we so often need…these perfect moments are there for us.
We just can’t be so busy that we don’t allow them to take place.

Have a great weekend!
God Bless,
Christine

 

The Easter Story

This weekend is Easter. Easter is about a celebration of death and life. The sacrificial death of Jesus Christ and a celebration of His resurrection. Years ago I came to the realization that Easter is not about chocolates and bunnies. Easter is actually summed up in John 3: 16, “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

I’m not here in this blog to tell you how to celebrate Easter. You can celebrate it any way you wish. I just wanted to share with you the way I celebrate Easter and to let some of you know why we have Easter to begin with.  You can read about the life and death and resurrection of Jesus in the Bible. I highly recommend the Book of John, especially if you have never read the Bible before. This book is easy to understand and it gives a great description about Jesus.

The story of Jesus’s death and resurrection begins a week before Easter. On what we call  Palm Sunday. This is the time in which Jesus enters Jerusalem on a donkey, which fulfills Old Testament prophesy.  This begins in John, Chapter 12 in the King James version).  You can then fast forward to chapter 18 in John if you wish (although I would read the rest of the chapters in between to learn the teachings and more back story of why Jesus said he would  be condemned and die on the cross) The betrayal and arrest of Jesus begins here . His own disciple Judas gave Jesus up to the authorities of the day, for a lousy 30 pieces of silver. Can you imagine your friend selling you out for so little, especially when you have not even committed a crime!! Judas even had the audacity to kiss him first! (on the cheek) that’s what friends did then, it is like you giving your friend a hug today. Europeans kiss both cheeks today. Anyway I digress.

So Jesus is hauled off to the Jewish authorities, where they judge Jesus guilty of “religious” crimes and heresy. This is done all in the middle of the night in a “court” . They even brought in “false” witnesses. The religious authorities became the judges, jury and would-be executioners all at the same time. So because the nation was celebrating Passover (you can read about Passover in the book of Exodus) they could not execute Jesus in the city, so they took Jesus to the Roman authority Pilate. Pilate then interviews Jesus to appease the Jewish authorities, then tells them essentially,  ’This “dude” (I’m paraphrasing) has done nothing wrong’. Well, that did not go over well with the Jewish leaders. So they tell Pilate that Jesus claimed to be the “King of the Jews”. He decides to have  Jesus whipped as punishment, but this still does not satisfy the Jewish leaders and people. Traditionally, as gesture to the Jewish nation at Passover, the Romans would pardon criminals and release them from their sentences. So Pilate thought he would present Jesus, and a murderer named Barabas to the crowds to have them decide who would go free. Well, the crowd decided that the murderer Barabas would go free. So Pilate “washed” his hands and had Jesus sentenced to death.

Why would they do this? I can hear you asking.

In old testament time and up to the same time Jesus was crucified, the Jewish people scarified lambs once a year. The lamb was to be “pure” (no marks )and was to be a substitute which was put to death in order that the Jewish people may have their sins forgiven. The High Priest of the Jews would enter a sacred room where no one but the high priest was allowed to enter. The area was called the ‘Holy of Holies’. This area in the temple was covered by a very thick red curtain. This is where the Ark of the Covenant was kept. The High Priest would talk to God,  and ask God to forgive the people of all their sins. The priest would then sprinkle the blood of the sacrificial lamb, over the ark to “hide”  or “cover” the sins of the people. Jesus said to his disciples that he would lay his life down (as a sacrifice) and then take it up again. He went to the cross as the ultimate pure sacrifice, so that mankind could be forgiven its sins, once and for all.

So when Jesus was on the cross, Jesus took our sins onto himself. Meaning he took all the blame for our sins with his shed blood, “covered” our sin.  God required the blood (or the element critical to life) to be shed in animal sacrifice to atone for sin. Jesus shed his pure blood for mankind so that God could then see us as “pure” with no sin. Making us forgiven and pure in the eyes of God.  Why did Jesus do this? So you and I could again have access to a spiritual relationship with God. The moment he died on the cross, the veil of the temple (the heavy curtain mentioned above) was ripped in two from top to bottom! Allowing direct access to God for anyone seeking the relationship.

On Easter Morning three days later, a couple of female followers of Jesus went to the tomb to finish preparing His body to complete his burial. It was customary to wait because it was Passover, and they were not permitted to work with bodies during that period of time. Mary who was first on the scene, found the rock covering the doorway (which weighed in at over a ton) to the enterance of the tomb, rolled away. She panicked and was rightly quite upset. Mary ran and got two of Jesus’s disciples, Peter and John. When they came to the tomb and found it empty, they were all dumbfounded and did not know what to make of it either. After the disciples left, Mary sat weeping at the tomb and a man who she thought was the gardener, walked up to her and asked her what was wrong. She told him someone had stolen her Lord. Jesus revealed himself to Mary as her risen Lord. He rose physically from death to prove that physical death had no power over Him. This is also great news for us. Our spirits will live on in Heaven for eternity and that physical death has no hold over anyone who believes in the life, death and resurection of Jesus Christ.

To have a full and complete explanation of Easter I encourage you to go to the source, The Holy Bible.

Have a blessed Easter.

Voting Is A Right

Here in our great country Canada. We have been thrown into an election.

Whether or not you agree we should have one is not the point of this post. The idea of this post is to remind everyone to go out and vote. It does not matter to me who you vote for, since frankly that is none of my business. What is our business as a nation, is that you do vote. The thing to keep in mind is that people all over the world, regardless of location, are envious of us because we have the right to vote.

Voting is not a privilege in our country, it is a right. With all rights come responsibilities. Though some people believe it is a privilege, we need to remember that with privileges there typically are no responsibilities.

The soldiers who fought in 2 world wars and many wars since then, and who are now fighting, are fighting to protect our freedom and rights. They also fight to bring freedom and rights for other countries who do not have any rights and freedoms of their own. By not voting and having your say, you are saying to those men and women,”Your sacrifice does not mean anything.”

Have we become such an apathetic society we feel our voice/vote does not mean anything? I would submit that this is a false belief. It does mean a lot. You and I get to voice our concerns about issues. Our participation in the political process can make the difference between a system of democracy and a system where we don’t get a say like a Communist system. I believe no one in Canada wants to be ruled by Communism and have no say at all.

You see this demand for democracy going on in the middle east right now. People are attempting to overthrow governments via violence because they do not have democracy and they don’t have the right to vote. If they had the right to vote they would exercise that right. Do you remember Afghanistan when they had their first election? People lined up for days with their ink-blackened thumbs and at great risk to their lives because they had a new chance to vote and use their voices.

Here in this country, thank The Good Lord, we don’t have to be concerned for our lives when we vote. We have a system where we get to have our say. This is why we should participate! We are blessed that we CAN have a say. However, if one doesn’t vote, he or she loses the right to voice concerns later on, because of a choice to not to use their voice in the first place.

Individuals expressing their votes within a nation and society can make a difference and encourage change to make it better.
So fellow Canadians on May 2, 2011 use your voice and vote. Let’s not be an apathetic country. Let’s continue to be a beacon of freedom, hope, and a great example to the rest of the world. VOTE!!!

It is your Right…and your Obligation!